Is It Love or lust? ... (Please answer)?

It's love, you seem to really love and care for her. You are very thoughtful in doing things for her, and waiting for that special moment, to be with her. She on the hand seems to have different thoughts by what you have written, and upon arguments, the truth does come out when were angry, and things spoken are usually pretty accurate. even if being angry at each other, should never say things that are truly going to affect your status between each other. I am in the same boat, i fight almost everyday in my relationship, but it's nothing to that extent and a leading to a break-up. I am sorry that she has said and done things, and maybe even seem not so sympathetic, but if she does love you and shows it..truly shows it and doesnt say hurtful things to you and/or do things behind your back, than perhaps she really does, i know you love her with all of your heart, and i hope it works out for you 2.