I'm 14...help!?

Let him leave! YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! i know all about messed up families and feeling like you havent got anyone there for you. I had a bf when i was 15 and still a virgin and he pulled that same ****. LET HIM LEAVE! theres always someone better! Trust me. Im 17 now and and i found that better. ive been with the love of my life for 2 years now. He helped me work through the insecurities that my family left me with and his family even treats me as though i was thier own felsh and blood. YOU DESERVE THAT KIND OF LOVE!!!! Never settle for the kind of guy who is sweet ans then goes when he doesnt get what he wants. He isnt real in his feelings towards you if he is like that. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!! DO NOT give in to him!!! You will regret it and i have so many firends that were in that situation and regret it with every breathe in them. You are better than that. And with the family issues that it sounds like youre dealing with, you DO NOT need that kind of resentment in your heart.... He will Not treat you the same if you do. Okay sweetie??? I may not know you but i do want better for you. Good Luck. Be smart. And Take Care.