Friends with benefits or a gf/bf?

i know exactly how you feel. i've had a couple boyfriends and i'm just not that comfortable with it. i mean i like to get to know the guy before anything happens but i'm rarely ever interested in the relationship stuff. i've just laid off for a while... maybe it would work for you too. or maybe not. i'm not sure. but if you're like me then you don't like to sleep around, but you definately want something. maybe a guy will come along that understands your situation. hey, maybe that'll happen for me too. who knows.